In scene 1, Polonius orders Reynaldo to spy on Laertes, which once again puts emphasis on the concept of subservience and fulfilling one’s duty (especially on Reynaldo’s part), while Polonius’s actions also exemplify the intrusive and meddlesome aspect of the scene. Additionally, in this first scene, there are also questions regarding honor and trust, as Polonius encourages Reynaldo to be devious in order to “expose” the truth about Laertes’ acquaintances. This actually reveals Polonius as a pitiful and cowardly character, since he is willing to go to extreme and desperate lengths in order to pry into his son’s life instead of just confronting his son face-to-face like a real man.
Moreover, Polonius’s manner towards his daughter Ophelia is also very strange and unloving. However, this is briefly contradicted when Polonius apologizes to Ophelia if he could have potentially provoking Hamlet’s erratic and peculiar behavior and madness when he says “I am sorry that with better heed and judgment I had not coted him” (2.1.124-125). In general though, Polonius kind of treats his daughter like a plaything, especially when he says “I’ll loose my daughter to him” (2.2.176) in scene 2, as if she is an animal to be unleashed or some inanimate object. Perhaps this is another indication of the controversy between what “seems” and what “is.” Is Polonius truly sorry for causing Hamlet’s madness, or does he want to seem sorry? As of now, Polonius’s obscure motives remain somewhat unclear.
On another note, Claudius and the Queen also exhibit signs of deceit and dishonesty when they ask Guildenstern and Rosencrantz to keep an eye on Hamlet because they are “concerned” for him. Hamlet’s bizarre and inexplicable behavior has made the Queen and Claudius worried for Hamlet’s well-being, or so it seems. In truth, I believe the Queen and Claudius are hiding a dark secret, like maybe some secret past love affair that they are bothered Hamlet might discover. I think they are onto Hamlet, and they want to keep him under surveillance in order to ensure that he doesn’t do anything to harm their reputation. After all, the queen has no doubt that Hamlet’s troubles have been triggered by “his father’s death and [their] o’erhasty marriage” (2.2.60), which we know as the audience isn’t completely true. I believe Hamlet’s actual train of thought and motives for acting mad and unusual will be revealed later on, but for now, I suspect that Hamlet is fully aware of his parents’s plans and that he intends on continuing this odd act until he’s ready to avenge his father’s death.